Look at a Different Angle

A Good, Interesting Essay

The 90-10 secret is about controlling your reaction when something bad happens to you but you can't change it. I know this secret, but I don't believe it completely because it isn't suitable for some people and situations. The example about the 10-percents in L12 is not good. For example, you should check your car regularly to avoid breaking down unless someone stabs your tires for fun. Thus, the focus is not how you react something bad, but how you avoid the bad thing happening in advance. In fact, there is a chance to avoid the splashing coffee event. If you put the cup far from the edge of the table, no one can knock it over. Although you do that, it still sometimes happens. However, you can't say that's ok forever. It is impossible to forgive everyone who does wrong again and again. If you give much forgiveness, you will go over the edge someday and more things just go from bad to worst. It is a consequence of enduring too much, so I think I won't apply it. (by Kelly)